Favour
Favour is the act of drawing goodwill, support, or blessing from a person, deity, spirit, or unseen force. It is the subtle magic of influence—gently shifting circumstances, perspectives, or energies in one’s direction to create a more favorable outcome. When working with the intention of favour, the practitioner seeks not to dominate, but to harmonize with others and with the universe, inviting kindness, understanding, and beneficial opportunities into their life. Whether asking for assistance in love, work, judgment, or spiritual matters, the essence of favour lies in aligning oneself with grace and receptivity.
Several deities are associated with favour, particularly those who govern love, success, and the opening of pathways. Aphrodite, the Greek goddess of love and beauty, brings favor in relationships, charm, and affection. Ganesha, the Hindu remover of obstacles, is often called upon to clear the way for success and ensure helpful outcomes. Freyja, the Norse goddess of fertility and wealth, encourages attraction, abundance, and influence. Thoth, the Egyptian god of wisdom and communication, supports clarity and the gaining of favor through eloquence and knowledge. These deities may be honored with offerings or called upon during rituals to open hearts, doors, and minds.
Herbs used in favour workings are typically warming, sweet, or protective—drawing positive attention and softening resistance. Basil is a traditional choice for encouraging goodwill, prosperity, and spiritual protection. Cinnamon is energizing and effective for creating success and favorable outcomes quickly. Ginger stimulates courage and action, giving strength when seeking approval or recognition. Lavender helps promote peace and harmonious interactions, reducing friction and encouraging openness from others. These herbs may be used in charm bags, incense, ritual baths, or oil blends to support the flow of favourable energy.
Crystals that support the intention of favour often blend qualities of charm, luck, protection, and relational strength. Citrine is a stone of prosperity and positivity, attracting generosity and success. Jade promotes harmony, protection, and luck in social and professional dealings. Rose quartz brings favor in matters of the heart and enhances emotional connection and trust. Tiger’s eye offers courage, protection, and balanced confidence—helpful when seeking favour in uncertain or competitive situations. These stones may be carried, worn, or placed on an altar to magnetize support and goodwill.
The element of Air is closely tied to favour, governing communication, thought, and social dynamics. Air encourages clarity, persuasion, and the movement of energy between people. Fire may also be involved, particularly when passion, confidence, or swiftness is needed to inspire action or influence outcomes.
Favour is aligned with the planet Venus, ruler of charm, beauty, and relationships. Venus enhances the ability to attract love, allies, and kindness. Jupiter’s expansive, benevolent energy may also be invoked when seeking favor in legal, social, or financial matters. Fridays, sacred to Venus, are ideal for rituals related to love and personal favor, while Thursdays offer strength for more public or professional requests.
Zodiac signs that resonate with favour include Libra, Pisces, and Leo. Libra draws harmony and grace into relationships, helping to resolve conflicts and appeal to others. Pisces brings emotional intuition and the ability to connect deeply with others' hearts and dreams. Leo shines with charisma and leadership, often gaining favour through boldness and natural magnetism. Working with the energy of these signs can enhance charm, empathy, and influence.
The waxing moon is the most potent time for favour rituals, supporting growth, attraction, and movement toward positive outcomes. The full moon can also be used to draw favor in urgent or visible situations, offering peak energy and clarity.
Ritual tools that enhance favour often include items symbolizing abundance, attraction, and reflection. Green or pink candles represent love, prosperity, and magnetism. Coins may be placed on the altar to draw wealth or goodwill in financial matters. A mirror can be used to reflect one’s intentions outward or to better understand one’s own influence. A wand or ritual staff can direct energy clearly toward the desired goal. Affirmations, offerings, and acts of kindness may also be woven into the ritual, helping to harmonize energy and inspire favor in return.